If confidence is sexy than what am I?

  So I stumbled across a photo on tumblr which read "Men are attracted to confidence more than tits, ass, and face. There's nothing sexier than a woman who refuses to give a fuck". All I am saying is I don't agree with this. Yes, maybe confidence is sexy but looks are what grabs the attention to begin with. I am extremely confident but I don't have every tom, dick, and harry knocking at my door! So what does this post exactly mean? Maybe I'm thinking to hard but I didn't particularly understand it.